WHAT IS AN AMENDS TO YOU

Is an Amends confessing your wrongs or making up for them? Or a Commitment to do & be better from this point forward? Not that I'm one from running from my mistakes, I usually fess up b4 anyone knows I screwed up, except when doing so is dangerous. And if someone wrongs U, is it important that they acknowledge U verbally with it? Or would U be satisfied w/ a general apology & a show of personal change & growth from them? Join the discussion, your answers could help others figure out their best course of action. For me, a wrong against me is amended by their personal growth & movement away from the life style & choices that fed/led to the damage or insult. For me so long as they change/walk along a better road, is all the amending that I care about. What about U?